Why it seems that they like to cling to the past? In the relations it is considerably more common to take to the failures of the past, indiscretions, the discords, feelings, problems, which is. The problem is He is this healthful one? I would say that probably no. He is ideal? Definitively no, but unfortunately, all we are human. If the always perfect relations were day after day, then he would be a little boring. But the question is like forgetting Nevertheless the past in a relation, the fight that continuous on the past means that, or, both, it seems that they cannot follow ahead. That could be because it is perceived that the feelings were not listened to before, or because the problem continues existing, but definitively is not doing well to anyone of you whenever it comes.
So, how to follow ahead? Good, that has so much of same you as adult and to put itself in agreement to leave it in the forgetfulness. If your or your pair is not arranged to do that or it is not preparations to continue, to be honest and to say to him to the other person which this happening to you, does not concern the painful thing who is. Otherwise, they persist and they will persist and your relation will be broken. If both agree to follow ahead, sincerely, then you need to really forget and to follow ahead. The question that there is to ask itself – Why not to forget and to pardon? To leave the past is not simple task but he is vital These discussions can happen several times, but they must be boarded otherwise never you would be resolveran and my bet is that it is going to happen enough to frequency if is allowed that this happens. It maintains in mind that sometimes the things are going to happen for any reason, a fight or discord, or that the person feels annoying by which she does not have anything to do with you and is a way to express her wrath.